The problems with online dating

“Online dating is so acceptable now that one of 8 marriages originates online. Yet there are risks. Because of online anonymity, over 50% of dating profiles are false and being used for scams, cons, and crimes done in the name of love”.  Excerpt from

So you have created your profile and joined a couple of dating sites and the girls are sending you messages of interest and you are scanning the 1000’s of profiles and emailing them back……. 

There are 100’s of  dating websites but I recommend Thai Cupid which is free to create your profile and browse all the girls (or ladyboys if that’s your interest) but to send and receive messages you do have to join and pay a small fee per month.. The difference between the UK dating sites and the Thai dating sites is simple….

With the UK websites you will probably get a ZERO response.

With the Thai websites you can get up to 10 girls per day sending you their interest.


So what is the down side of getting all these girls emailing you ?

  1. Firstly, you will be spoilt for choice and they will be from all over Thailand. You may think that going out there and visiting them all is an option but to be honest, it would be impractical to try to visit several places and see 10-20 girls within a few weeks and you would not have the time to see or spend any quality time with all the girls on your short list.
  2. People are never the same in the flesh as they look in their photos and their personalities can also be totally different from the emails they have been sending you. Many girls (and guys) use their best photos, usually several years old and they do not look anything like they did when the photos were taken.
  3. Nearly all the girls are emailing loads guys at the same time….
    They are all looking for the serious guy who will go out and meet them, and unfortunately many of them will marry virtually anyone to escape their present situation if they are bar girls or Street hookers

That is a big mistake guys….. It is better to stay single than be in a shit relationship with a woman that only sees you as an ATM machine. If there is no love or connection between you… then you are in for a really bad ride.

I have seen so many relationships fail because the GUY falls madly in love with the girl but the girl is simply being nice and marrying the guy to get into the UK so she can work and send money home…..


The Bar Girl Syndrome: So many guys fall in love with a “bar girl” and think… that she loves him and she is different and that he wants to give her a better life…. 

DON’T do it guys.

“You can take a girl out of the bar – but you can never take the bar out of the girl”

Once a bar girl… always a bar girl… If you have read the ebook “private dancer” you will be much more the wiser.

The internet cafes in Thailand and the Philippines are full with girls emailing 10-20 guys each at a time, telling them “ALL” how much she loves them and how she cannot wait for him to come and see her / marry her. There are some girls and guys out there that write the long love letters (for a small fee).

There are also very smart girls who work the internet dating sites as a very profitable business. These girls have absolutely NO INTENTION of marriage, all they do is play on the feelings and loneliness of single guys and after a few emails start to ask for money because of a whole load of crazy excuses.

Do you know that a girl can make £100’s per week from just a few lonely guys all sending here money every month, all thinking they are the only one she is writing to. If she had a normal job she would be extremely lucky to make £100 per month…!!!

So why would she go to work when she can have a good life with loads of money just by emailing lonely guys for an hour or so every week.

If you’re serious about finding a nice, honest and educated Thai wife – I offer my personal consultation by phone or a live meeting in Bangkok… See the About page.




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